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Are there messages in crying?
Having a miscarriage is absolutely disheartening. Losing your dream. Losing it so badly that you feel like you lost yourself and your sense of purpose.
You feel alone, exhausted, not understood.
You cry.
You cry until there aren’t any tears left. Time just floats away without you, weeks go by, things happen around you, without you being present with them or noticing them much.
You’re overthinking everything and asking yourself questions, but no answers are coming.
Everything is too real, too raw, too painful.
Why is this happening to me? Why isn’t this happening to somebody else? What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this?
You feel incomplete, broken, a hold in your chest, unmanageable, never ending.
No more tears to shed.
But if you give them a bit of time, more tears seem to form and you cry some more.
You know you’re grieving and just waiting for all the stages to pass, anger, sadness, acceptance, and all that.
But the sadness doesn’t really go away, feels like a yo yo effect, passing through the motions, constant back and forth. Really, does feel never ending.
But …
Are there messages in your tears and in crying?
The soul of your baby came through just for a short blip of a second, to teach you something. Did you connect in with their soul and have a conversation? Did you ask them how come they didn’t stay? Did you ask them for the answers that you seek?
Little souls are chatty and always have answers.
Sometimes they’re about forgiving yourself, letting go of the past, giving up control.
Other times they’re about being with the wrong partner, wrong environment, working yourself to the ground to avoid your life completely, let alone getting pregnant and staying pregnant.
And other times they’re about karmic lessons you’ve brought forth, healing genetic lineages in your current lifetime, resolving trauma from past lives.
How do you know which is it?
Can crying tell you that?
To get the answer, let’s backtrack for a second and analyse this on a cellular level.
To start, let’s take the act of crying.
When you cry, how do you cry? Are you alone in the shower, face buried in your hands, water dripping over you, wiping the tears away?
Do you make any noise? Screaming and crying in a pillow?
How long do you cry for?
Did you know that you have spiritual neurotransmitters and receptors in your body? These are tiny communications happening inside you all the time. When you cry, there is a flood of ‘crying’ neurotransmitters going through you. The longer you cry for, the more receptors get filled up by those neurotransmitters.
When your body runs out of neurotransmitters and all the receptors are full, it’s literally impossible to maintain the feeling for a long time. Naturally, a different feeling comes over - anger, sadness, happiness, joy, peace.
This means that when you finish a really good session of crying, you will inevitably turn to a different feeling, whichever that may be.
Here’s where the magic happens.
When you feel that you’re about to finish a crying session, you stop crying and take a deep breath, a sigh of relief. The next immediate thing that happens is …
Silence, thoughtlessness, stillness.
You have your eyes opened, and look out in the void, not really seeing anything. You don’t think anything, you don’t hear anything. You feel a tiny bit of piece and for a brief moment, time stops.
This is … the in-between.
This is the space between the spaces, a pure moment of connection with your divinity and higher self. A moment of stillness. The ideal moment to ask questions and receive answers.
The ideal moment … to chat with the soul of the baby you could have had.
Your stillness has all the messages you need.
The answers you seek are always in the space between the spaces.
My message (and action steps) for you:
Having a miscarriage and losing your dream is heartbreaking, but never without answers. Cry as much as you can. Cry until there aren’t any tears left. Cry until you feel peace and stillness, a state of no-thoughts, emptiness. In that moment, ask your questions and wait for your answers. The divine, your higher self and the soul of the baby you could have had will chat back. It’s truly a moment of bliss when this happens. And it’s all happening, in the space between the spaces.
Always look for stillness in crying! Magic always happens there.
And remember ...
Now you know how to cry, always remember, I love you and you are okay, always!
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